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General Discussion => The Lounge => Topic started by: 94touring on September 19, 2019, 04:38:32 PM

Title: Careful who you hitch your trailer to
Post by: 94touring on September 19, 2019, 04:38:32 PM
My sister has been dating a guy for about a year and a half.  I've met him a couple times, didn't spend enough time to get to know him too well.  Apparently over the past few months he's been going downhill in the mental stability department.  Also come to find out he's been physically abusive in their relationship. Well two nights ago they got into a fight, she tried to get away in her car, and he opened fire on her.  Got her once in the chest, another almost got her in the head.  She ran him partially over in the car he was shooting up as she tried to get away.  Drove herself to a gas station and got help.  Longer story short she lived and is pretty stable.  He's in jail on no bond.  Lost half a lung, broke some ribs, and has been in a few surgeries the past couple days. Missed her heart by an inch they said.  Visited with her yesterday and she's pretty alert all things considered.  Baby sitting her daughter today.
Title: Re: Careful who you hitch your trailer to
Post by: MiniDave on September 19, 2019, 04:53:52 PM
Jeez Louise!  :-\
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Post by: MPlayle on September 19, 2019, 07:32:04 PM
I am as shocked as Dave.  I hope she recovers well.  Look out for the daughter and give her lots of support as well.

Title: Re: Careful who you hitch your trailer to
Post by: 94touring on September 19, 2019, 07:36:50 PM
Her daughter is 8 and just thinks her mom is sick in the hospital. 
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Post by: MiniDave on September 19, 2019, 08:55:54 PM
She's a real cutie too, looks like she's dealing with it OK. I take it she wasn't home when it happened?
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Post by: jeff10049 on September 19, 2019, 10:53:21 PM
Holy shit I am sorry to hear this.

I can't understand why this happens. Don't know what else to say.
Title: Re: Careful who you hitch your trailer to
Post by: 94touring on September 20, 2019, 05:03:45 AM
Quote from: MiniDave on September 19, 2019, 08:55:54 PM
She's a real cutie too, looks like she's dealing with it OK. I take it she wasn't home when it happened?

She was at my mother's house at the time luckily.
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Post by: tsumini on September 20, 2019, 05:27:49 PM
Wow! That realy sucks.  Best of luck dealing with it.
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Post by: BruceK on September 20, 2019, 06:43:52 PM
 Wow. That is shocking.   I'm so sorry that happened to her and to you family too.   I hope she recovers soon and her daughter is not scarred by this.    And I hope you and Jen are doing okay as well. 
Title: Re: Careful who you hitch your trailer to
Post by: 94touring on September 20, 2019, 07:29:12 PM
They moved her out of ICU today.  Waiting for her lung to fill up before removing tubes and sending her home.  She was in a lot of pain today.
Title: Re: Careful who you hitch your trailer to
Post by: BruceK on September 21, 2019, 12:41:19 PM
Discharging already?  That's very encouraging.
Title: Re: Careful who you hitch your trailer to
Post by: 94touring on September 21, 2019, 12:52:32 PM
She was up for the first time and using a walker but got dizzy and had to lay back down.  So doing good really.  Pain management is the biggest thing right now.  They say once the tubes are out she'll feel much better.
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Post by: MiniDave on September 21, 2019, 01:12:50 PM
Really good news.

What's happened to the shooter?
Title: Re: Careful who you hitch your trailer to
Post by: 94touring on September 21, 2019, 01:18:41 PM
He's set for initial trial hearing the beginning of October it sounds like.  I will give updates.
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Post by: MiniDave on September 21, 2019, 01:39:41 PM
But they'll keep him locked down tight till then?
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Post by: 94touring on September 21, 2019, 01:47:13 PM
No getting out for him till the end of however long a trial goes on for.  At which point I'd suspect he is sentenced for attempted murder and sent to prison.  We shall see.
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Post by: Jimini II on September 21, 2019, 04:50:06 PM
Wow I just read this, I hope your Sister makes a full recovery.
Title: Re: Careful who you hitch your trailer to
Post by: 94touring on September 21, 2019, 05:26:48 PM
Latest is someone on his side has called the detectives pretending to be my mother.  Perhaps his mother who keeps trying to reach out to my mother.  They've implemented passcodes to have communication to the detectives now.  There were already only a few of us with access to my sisters location at the hospital.  You could call every hospital in the city and they'd just say she wasn't there. 
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Post by: MPlayle on September 21, 2019, 06:44:54 PM
Time for a TRO against his whole family?

Title: Re: Careful who you hitch your trailer to
Post by: 94touring on September 22, 2019, 07:43:08 AM
Yeah not sure how that would work. 
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Post by: jeff10049 on October 18, 2019, 11:53:21 PM
How is your sister doing?
Title: Re: Careful who you hitch your trailer to
Post by: 94touring on October 19, 2019, 09:16:29 AM
Pretty much back to normal although the rib causes pain and discomfort.  She's coming to an annual Halloween party with us next week so she's healthy enough to get out of the house.